as someone once told me that human relationships can change when there r different expectations.. if the two individuals r able to understand the differences n learn.. these two individuals will have a stronger relationship at the end of the day.. but if either one of them decided to judge n make comparison based of what is expected and what is observed, this individual will eventually be disappointed..
the someone told me the solution to a better human relationship, whether is it between parents-children or a couple, is thru conversations.. by talking and sharing, people learn and can understand others better..
for eg, The teacher expects the student who is top in class for Maths to do well in all exercises, tests and examination. But one day, this student has difficulties understanding chapter X, but chose not to tell the teacher and seek help, the teacher will b amazed and disappointed that he did badly for the test for chapter X. But if the student approach the teacher to address the issue, the teacher will help this student and there is an understanding that he is weak at chapter X and may not do as well as before.
Therefore, i conclude that one shld not judge another person immediately based on the difference in the expectations n observations.. first understand the person and the story behind, do not compare this individual with someone whom u know before and start to complain about the differences.. each individual is special and each relationship is special.. what is important is not how much this individual can give but rather how much one can learn from this individual thru the time spent together.. being understanding is crucial in any form of relationship..
i'm glad tt there is someone who made me understand that.. it may seems nth material but i noe u have given me all... it sadden me to hear that u may choose to leave if at the end of the day u feel that u can't "meet" my "expectations.. for that moment, my heart cries.. i shldnt haf said wat i said.. i was being too childish..
sarang heyo..